I Made A Secret Promise To My Friend In College. 20 Years Later, I Finally Revealed It To Her.
We inhabited a strange, liminal space between adolescence and adulthood. On the one hand, there were moments of feeling invincible. I smoked cigarettes and didn’t care what they might be doing to my body. We sat out on fire escapes and ledges, not worrying that we might fall. On the other hand, we could see beyond the innocence of childhood to the terror of the world. We were in New York City on September 11, and climbed onto the roof of our dorm and saw the smoke from all the way downtown. We w...